Retreats

Nov. 24-Dec. 1 2027 · Puerto Escondido, Oaxaca

Cihuateotcalli:
Aguas Sagradas Initiation

Seven paths studied over seven months, then deepened over seven days in living relationship with water.

Limited to 12 participants

Aguas Sagradas

Cihuateotcalli: Aguas Sagradas Initiation

Nov. 24-Dec. 1 2027| Puerto Escondido, Oaxaca

Each year, this retreat is an intentional gathering centered on water, creative practice, and relational ways of being with land and community. Over seven days, we move slowly through oceans, rivers, waterfalls, springs, and lagoons, allowing water to guide reflection, restoration, and expression. We treat them like the living beings they are, and invite participants into living relationship with water.

This is not a consumptive retreat experience. We do not rush, extract, or perform. The retreat is designed in collaboration with local Native guides and communities, with consideration given to how we move, where we spend, and what we ask of the land.

Through daily workshops, creative exploration, cultural and ecological experiences, and shared meals, participants are supported in reconnecting with their bodies, their breath, and their own internal cycles. Everything is held with intention, from the pace of the days to the way meals are prepared and shared.

If you feel called to join the November 2027 retreat, you are invited to email me directly to receive additional details and submit your deposit. Spaces are intentionally limited, and retreats do fill. Early inquiries are encouraged.

Continue reading for more details.

You can reach me at: rainoftlaloc@gmail.com

Before We Begin

A Note on Language

Language shapes the way we perceive the world. Much of the language available to us today was developed within worldviews centered on ownership, hierarchy, separation, and subjugation. While the words used to describe or write about the following experiences remain useful, they are often imperfect vessels for describing relational ways of knowing.

With that being said the word “retreat” is an imperfect description of what this experience fully entails. Etymologically, retreat means to withdraw or move away, but here we come to meet ourselves more fully and to enter into relationship with the land, the waters, one another, and those aspects of ourselves that emerge during our time together.

The goal is to transform the way we encounter the world from as something to possess to something we can integrate with and come into relationship with.

Who Finds Their Way Here

Who is this for?

Prioritizing BIPOC community, Cihuateotcalli has been a container for individuals of many walks of life, those that have just begun to walk and elders alike. They’ve all shared a common thread in a willingness to enter into the process of change and transformation. These offerings are for those that have begun to ask deeper questions about their place in the world and how they want to show up in it. Many participants are therapists, educators, artists, facilitators, healthcare workers, community leaders and people in caring professions. Some are just looking for healing. While Cihuateotcalli has expanded to welcome people of all genders, Aguas Sagradas remains an intentional retreat space for womxn.

If you've ever found yourself asking, What do I have to offer the world that is true to my authenticity? or searching for those aspects of yourself that are uniquely yours, Cihuateotcalli offers a relational way of being and seeing the world. It is an invitation to cultivate a way of living that is centered in integrity, relationship, and self-determination.

The Container

Shared Agreements

This intensive is not intended as a vacation. It is a shared container built upon mutual respect, presence, and care for one another.

Participants are asked to honor each person's individual process and timing. The integrity of the circle depends upon our willingness to meet one another without hierarchy, comparison, or competition.

This is a dry retreat. Alcohol and recreational substances are not permitted. Participants are also encouraged to minimize cellphone use during retreat hours in order to remain present with the work and with one another. If work or family obligations require occasional access, accommodations can be discussed in advance.

Part of the intention of this intensive is to step away from the momentum of daily life so that your attention can return to yourself, to the land, and to the relationships unfolding around you.

Community & Reciprocity

Relationship with the Land and it's Stewards

For over two decades, my partner Itzcuauhtli has cultivated friendships and working relationships with the people and communities of Puerto Escondido. Together with two native business partners, they have welcomed visitors through a model of community-centered, ecological tourism that prioritizes reciprocity, respect, and long-term relationships instead of consumption.

Every effort is made to ensure that our presence contributes positively to the communities that receive us. We intentionally collaborate with native guides, businesses, artisans, chefs, and community members, recognizing that the knowledge, generosity, and stewardship of this place already exist. Our role is not to arrive as experts, but as respectful guests.

As participants, we ask that you enter with the same spirit. How we move through a place matters. The relationships we cultivate, the ways we spend our resources, and the care we extend to those who welcome us are all part of the work. Our hope is that everyone we encounter is better for having crossed paths with us.

Before We Meet in Oaxaca

Seven months of preparation

Aguas Sagradas begins before we arrive in Puerto Escondido. Participants gather online via Zoom once each month for seven months to enter into the Seven Serpent Paths of Chicomecoatl through study, conversation, creative practice, and relational preparation.

These gatherings allow us to arrive as a formed circle rather than as strangers. Each path is introduced slowly, giving participants time to observe how it moves through their daily lives before we deepen the work together in Oaxaca.

Seven paths. Seven months. Seven days beside the living waters.

The Preparatory Container

The Seven Serpent Paths

Each monthly gathering opens one path of study. The paths are introduced through conversation, observation, creative practice, reflection, and relationship before being deepened together in Oaxaca.

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First Path

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Second Path

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Third Path

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Fourth Path

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Fifth Path

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Sixth Path

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Seventh Path

The complete names and teachings of the seven paths will be shared with registered participants as the preparatory circle begins.

Seven Retreat Days & Seven Nights

The Journey Begins Together

In Puerto Escondido, the teachings move out of the screen and into embodied relationship. We travel together to oceans, rivers, waterfalls, springs, lagoons, and other living waters throughout the region.

 

From the moment we meet at the Cross Border Express in San Diego, you will travel as part of the group. Throughout the retreat, transportation is coordinated and guided by our local team, whose relationships with the region have been cultivated over decades. You won't be traveling Oaxaca alone, you'll be welcomed into a journey held with consideration from beginning to end.

7 RETREAT DAYS & 7 NIGHTS
NOVEMBER 24–DECEMBER 1, 2027
DECEMBER 1 IS A TRAVEL DAY

Your Hosts

Cihua Mazatl & Itzcuauhtli

Cihua Mazatl

 Founder & Facilitator

There is a Nahuatl saying: In xochitl, in cuicatl: flower and song.

To me, it speaks to the many ways human beings create and find meaning. We paint, dance, write, sing, tell stories,tattoo, weave, drum and we gather around fire.  By right of being a human being, we are artists first. Extensions of creation. Long before I had words for philosophy, I understood making. I watched my ingenious mother find solutions big and small through her creativity. She inadvertently burned her desire to create within me, whether she herself continued to follow it or not. 

Creativity extends beyond self-expression. It has been a way for me to discover the answers to my deeper questions such as: How do we become more fully ourselves?

That question has guided my life because I’ve never liked to be defined or constrained to definition or any other likeness. My early childhood life was tumultuous, constrained, lonely, and marked by fear. I sought liberation from needing a reason to exist while simultaneously and ironically never asking why I had an unquenchable desire to create.

Consequently I studied psychology and studio art, later continuing into graduate studies in expressive arts therapy because I wanted to understand not only how I could heal, how people heal, but also how creativity itself participates in that process. I spent years working with children and families, where I learned that transformation rarely happens through explanation alone or as my formal studies had taught me to believe. It happens through relationship, play, story, symbol, and experience. It was the children that taught me that. 

Alongside those studies, I spent more than two decades practicing tarot and intuitive work. Thousands of conversations with people from every stage of life taught me that beneath our different circumstances, many of us are asking suprisingly similar questions. We long to understand ourselves, we seek purpose,  search for belonging and ultimately want to know how to live with integrity.

Those experiences taught me to listen because some of us just want to be heard and witnessed.

As an artist, my work continued to evolve through painting, writing, jewelry, tattooing, sewing, and ritual.  I never experienced these as separate practices as each became another language through which to explore what it means to be human.

Years later, about a decade ago, my ancestral reconnection journey began through dreams and arts based research.  Following the cosmic breadcrumbs lead me back home after years of western mysticism, I returned to my Yoeme roots. I traveled home to Mazatlan Sinaloa, where i’d been returning to all my life, and turned to my elders to ask questions.

I’d already begun my Danza Azteca journey when my studies brought me into deeper relationship with the Mexicayotl and the Tonalpohualli after many intensive studies in Teotihuacan, Mexico. As different as these teachings had been to what I’d always thought I knew, it connected me to something I had already been reaching toward: a relational understanding of the world.

One that asks us to move away from domination and toward participation. I came to realize it meant that even within these “decolonized” spaces they too were moving through the same lessons at the same time. I entered into medicine circles and spaces that added dimension to the facilitation process I had long ago begun with my grad studies. These medicine circles as beautiful as they were also taught me about shadow, ego, and reflected the work we had yet to do as a collective. It taught me about the importance of integrity in not only the work but how we embody it in our lives. My biggest lessons came from liberating myself from those that were determined to use my gifts and extract from me for their own gain. 

These teachings continue to shape my life, but they are not something I claim to possess. Like any meaningful relationship, they continue to ask things of me. They continue to teach me. I remain a student.

Over time, I realized that everything I had been doing (the artwork, the writings, the readings, the gatherings, the journals, the retreats, the teaching) was not a collection of unrelated projects. They were all expressions of the same philosophy.

That philosophy became Cihuateotcalli.

Cihuateotcalli is an evolving body of work based in relationship, creativity, observation, and lived experience. It is an invitation to approach learning without the lens of it being something to conquer or master, but as something that unfolds through participation. 

People often ask me where I learned these things. The truth is that I have been shaped by many teachers, by professors, books, artists, psychologists, elders and communities who entrusted me with their teachings. By children, ceremony, rivers, mountains,  mistakes, years of practice, and by the land. None of us arrive here alone.

If there is one thread that runs through all of my work, it is the belief that transformation happens through relationship to life. I don't believe these relationships can be rushed, downloaded or purchased. They must be lived.

Cihuateotcalli is my way of continuing that practice. Whether you arrive through a painting, a retreat, a tarot reading, the Tonalpohualli, or simple curiosity, my hope is not that you leave with more answers, but with better questions and a deeper relationship to your own life.

Itzcuauhtli, Heriberto Sanchez

 Steward of Place

For more than twenty years, Itzcuauhtli has returned to Puerto Escondido first in relationship with the water as a surfer. Over the years he has cultivated lasting friendships with local families, guides, and community members, earning a level of trust that can only be built through consistency, respect, and time.

Working alongside two native to Puerto Escondido business partners, he has helped create non-extractive experiences based in reciprocity. At a time when rapid development and tourism have transformed much of the region, he is committed to ensuring that our presence contributes positively to the communities that receive us. Every effort is made to collaborate with local businesses, artisans, chefs, guides, and families, recognizing that the knowledge and stewardship of this place already exist.

His knowledge of the region extends far beyond logistics. Years of listening, showing up, and building trust have created relationships that cannot be replicated through an itinerary alone. These relationships allow us to introduce participants to Puerto Escondido as respectful guests.

Together, we believe that hospitality is more than logistics, it is a practice of relationship with the land and it's inhabitants. While I hold the philosophical and educational container of Cihuateotcalli, Itzcuauhtli holds the relationships with place and community that make this gathering possible. Our shared intention is simple: that everyone we encounter participants, neighbors, collaborators, and friends is better for having crossed paths with us.

The Retreat Experience

What is included

The initiation includes the complete seven-month preparatory container and the seven retreat-day, seven-night gathering in Oaxaca.

Seven-Month Preparation

  • Seven monthly online gatherings before the retreat
  • Study of the Seven Serpent Paths of Chicomecoatl
  • Guided reflection and creative practices between meetings
  • Community preparation before traveling together
  • Time to form relationship within the retreat circle

Workshops & Materials

  • All Cihuateotcalli retreat workshops
  • Daily creative and relational practices
  • Sketchbook and creative materials
  • Writing and journaling practices
  • Integration and closing practices

Creative & Relational Practice

  • Gentle inner-child exploration
  • Play and community building
  • Pláticas and shared reflection
  • Conscious group practices
  • Witness consciousness
  • Space for restoration and personal integration

Accommodations & Meals

  • Seven Retreat days and seven nights
  • Double-occupancy rooms
  • Meals featuring local cuisine
  • Cooking classes and shared food experiences
  • Water and snacks provided daily
  • Vegan and vegetarian options available
  • Medical dietary restrictions accommodated when arranged in advance

Cultural & Ecological Experiences

  • Conscious exploration of oceans, rivers, waterfalls, springs, lagoons, and other living waters
  • Cultural and ecological experiences arranged with local communities
  • Time for reflection, restoration, and creative expression
  • An intentionally unhurried seven-day rhythm
  • Relationship-centered experiences with land and community

Guides, Flights & Transportation

  • Roundtrip flights from Tijuana to Puerto Escondido included
  • Two licensed Native guides
  • Air-conditioned private ground transportation
  • Transportation for scheduled retreat activities
  • Roundtrip Puerto Escondido Airport transfers included

Not Included

  • Transportation to and from Tijuana Airport
  • Travel insurance
  • Unscheduled personal transportation
  • Personal purchases
  • Optional experiences outside the retreat itinerary

This intensive is intentionally limited to 12 participants so that relationship, attention, and the integrity of the circle can remain central.